This story was originally published by Reasons to be Cheerful
“Borders have led to mass deaths, sexual violence and human trafficking — we must abolish them,” said Catherine Wihtol De Wenden, casting a stern glance out at the packed audience, assembled on chairs, benches and even sitting on the floor.
The French political scientist cited numerous examples and statistics to back up her argument. Since 2014, more than 25,000 people have died attempting to cross from North Africa to Europe, she said; in Libya, a slave trade is profiting from refugees fleeing war and disaster; the Iron Curtain brought misery to millions; the EU’s own border agency, Frontex, regularly commits human rights abuses.
During her three-minute monologue, the crowd listened intently. Some nodded in agreement. Some shook their heads dramatically. Others jotted their thoughts in a notepad. But nobody was allowed to say a word until she finished her allotted time.
Then Ano Kuhanathan, a Paris-based economist assigned as De Wenden’s debate partner on the stage, stood up to take his turn. And he had come ready to disagree — but to do so cordially and purposefully.
“Why are there these flows of people?” Kuhanathan, himself a political refugee who fled from Sri Lanka to France, asked rhetorically.
“What’s it for? To get a job. To get a house. To make a life,” he continued. “Instead of abolishing borders, it’s more important to give people equal opportunities when they arrive. If they are just allowed to work as Uber drivers, it makes no sense.”
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De Wenden and Kuhanathan then engaged in another round of heated debate about borders that spanned everything from colonization to religion, labor rights, national identity, organized crime, taxation, globalization, AI and more. The comments drew giggles, sighs, applause or indeed knowing glances between audience members.
The discussion was part of a project designed to cultivate the art of disagreement. Known as the Night of Controversies, the Paris-based event featured about a dozen different sessions throughout the evening, including debates such as “Do we need a green dictatorship?” and “Can we be happy in a world that is going to hell?” as well as workshops on the art of the argument and non-violent communication.
Run by the Institute of Desirable Futures, an organization working on corporate innovation and leadership, the project aims to “enrich us from our disagreements” and to “joyfully cast doubt on our certainties” in an era of growing polarization. The initiative is part of a wider movement that sees finding common ground and learning to “disagree well” as a potent remedy to many of today’s societal and political woes.



